GIRLS ONLY:Tatoo's Appealing?

im thinking about getting a tatoo for my 17 B-day maybe a black widow spider(9the most deadly spider in america) near my Uhhh........ feel in the blanks it'll be right above it like maybe near my pubes or my left thigh or if i can't get that it'll be a heart with roses and a dagger going through it with the vines going down my arm with oh and a skull MUST be on the hilt of the handle(symbolic for how painful love is) im asking GIRLS ONLY is this appealing or too much.