What would you do if you were me?

if Cruse was her bf then she shouldn't have been acting like that around John. if you ask me, Amanda played with fire and got burned. John is an unfortunate causality, but if he wants to go with Amanda its his loss. She seems like the kind of person who would take him for all he's worth and drop him once she stops getting what she wants. I'd find a different bf if I were you, as John has his head up Amanda's a$$. I wouldn't feel too bad though. guys like him are a dime a dozen.